
Choose a good reputation over great riches, for being held in high esteem is
better than having silver or gold. The rich and the poor have this in common:
The LORD made them both. (Proverbs 22:1-2 NLT).
When the 1960s ended, San
Francisco’s Haight-Ashbury district reverted to high rent, and many hippies
moved down the coast to Santa Cruz. They had children and got married, too,
though in no particular sequence. But they didn’t name their children Melissa or
Brett. People in the mountains around Santa Cruz grew accustomed to their
children playing Frisbee with little Time Warp or Spring Fever. And eventually
Moonbeam, Earth, Love and Precious Promise all ended up in public school. That’s
when the kindergarten teachers first met Fruit Stand. Every fall, according to
tradition, parents bravely apply nametags to their children, kiss them good-bye
and send them off to school on the bus. So it was for Fruit Stand. The teachers
thought the boy’s name was odd, but they tried to make the best of it.
“Would you like to play with
the blocks, Fruit Stand?” they offered. And later, “Fruit Stand, how about a
snack?” He accepted hesitantly. By the end of the day, his name didn’t seem much
odder than Heather’s or Sun Ray’s. At dismissal time, the teachers led the
children out to the buses. “Fruit Stand, do you know which one is your bus?” He
didn’t answer. That wasn’t strange. He hadn’t answered them all day. Lots of
children are shy on the first day of school. It didn’t matter. The teachers had
instructed the parents to write the names of their children’s bus stops on the
reverse side of their nametags. The teacher simply turned over the tag. There,
neatly printed, was the word “Anthony.”
According to the 2003 BabyCenter,
Jacob and Emily were the most popular baby names in the United States for the
third year in a row. The “Baby Names List” compiled by BabyCenter L.L.C., the
leading online resource for new and expectant parents had very few major
upheavals in the rankings below the number-one spots. The use of classic
feminine names like Emily, Abigail and Isabella increased significantly for
girls, a move away from the TV-inspired names that have been popular since the
mid-1990s, such as Alexis and Brianna. The boys' names list, which typically
varies very little year to year, also saw unusual movement but in the opposite
direction. Newcomers such as Aidan, Ryan and Zachary are edging out long time
classic boys’ names such as Michael and Christopher.
So
what? It only serves to remind us that a good “name,” or as the reading this
morning indicates, a good reputation, is essential. There is only one way to
maintain such a name. It is not what it is, but what it represents. Fruit Stand
or not, if you stand for integrity and goodness, then you will have true riches.
All the money in the world cannot buy those qualities.
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