Stop judging others, and you will not be
judged. For others will treat you as you treat them. Whatever measure you
use in judging others, it will be used to measure how you are judged. And
why worry about a speck in your friend's eye when you have a log in your
own? How can you think of saying, “Let me help you get rid of that speck in
your eye,” when you can't see past the log in your own eye? Hypocrite! First
get rid of the log from your own eye; then perhaps you will see well enough
to deal with the speck in your friend's eye. (Matthew 7:1-5 NLT).
Ed Price has written a wonderful little parable that
illustrates the call to forgiveness. This is the heart of the message in our
reading this morning.
Once upon a time there were two screws fastening
a vital part of a gasoline engine. One of the screws was haughty and proud of
it's shining head. The second screw was quiet, intent only on doing its job to
the best of its ability. One day a speck of rust appeared on the head of the
second screw. Filled with vain pride of its own beauty, the first screw began to
laugh at the second. "Your head is tarnished," the first said to the second.
"Look at you. Your perfect luster is gone." The second screw said nothing.
Instead, it concentrated on what it was doing. "How ugly you have become," the
first screw chortled, "and how beautiful I have remained." Then it began to
laugh so hard at the second screw that it failed to notice that it was working
itself loose. Finally it dropped off the engine and plunged into a small pool of
dirty oil below. With the first screw no longer holding up its end of the load,
the second was faced with doing the work of two. Meanwhile the first screw, now
covered with grimy oil, wailed and lamented. "Just look at me! I'm dirty and
filthy and all my beauty is gone. By laughing at the blemish on my friend the
second screw, I worked myself loose and fell into the muck. Now I'm doomed."
Now, it just so happened that a short time later the owner of the engine started
it up. He immediately noticed that something didn't sound right -- the engine
was running rough. When he checked, he instantly saw that one of the two screws
holding the vital part was missing. "Ah ha!" the owner said. "One of the screws
must have worked itself loose and fell to the ground, but I don't see it. Maybe
it fell into that puddle of old oil." The owner reached into the oil and found
the missing screw. "Look at you," the owner said. "You're all covered with grime
and oil. How ugly you are. But I will fix that right away." The owner reached
for a nearby rag and wiped all the oil and grime off the first screw until it
shone even brighter than before. Then he replaced it on the part. Before he
turned away, he noticed a little speck of tarnish on the head of the second
screw. With the second rag, he wiped the head clean and bright. Then the owner
walked away. Finally the engine was started. The two screws, now equally
beautiful, held the part tight. "Forgive me, my friend," the first screw said to
the second. "In my vanity, I was so busy laughing at your blemish that I did not
notice that I was working myself loose." "And what have you learned?" the second
screw quietly asked. "I learned not to judge others because I have my own sins
to deal with." "Then," the second screw said, "I forgive you." "Thank you, my
friend. And rest assured, my vanity will remain forever at the bottom of that
dirty puddle of oil."
Jesus called those who could not forgive hypocrites. It
is a word that carries severe penalties. He simply states that we will receive
the same kind of forgiveness that we give to others. Forgiveness is difficult,
especially when you have been truly wronged. However, it is the right thing to
do. It will always bring blessings back to you. |