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It is safer to meet a bear
robbed of her cubs than to confront a fool caught in folly. If you repay evil
for good, evil will never leave your house. Beginning a quarrel is like opening
a floodgate, so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.
(Proverbs 17:12-14 NLT).
Ed Price tells a wonderful parable that illustrates the
foolishness of quarrelling. It seems that there lived a bear in a cave deep in
the woods. Nearby was a meadow in which a farmer kept his cattle -- and one
large, ferocious-looking bull. Each day the bear hid at the edge of the woods,
watching the bull. The bear was known as the strongest, most fierce creature for
miles around. No other beast in the forest dared to tangle with him. As the bear
watched the bull peacefully gazing, he wondered which one of them would win a
test of strength. He thought about this for many days. Then one morning he
decided to challenge the bull to a fight to the finish. The bull had just
chomped down on a fresh clump of clover when he looked up and saw the bear
barreling across the meadow toward him. He stopped chewing. The red flag of
danger popped up in his head. The bear skidded to a halt in front of him. The
bull lowered his head menacingly, his sharp horns aimed right for the bear's
throat. For long moments they stood in place -- eyeball to eyeball -- neither
one of them moving. Finally the bull grew tired of the stare-down and asked,
"What do you want, Bear?"
"I want to fight you," growled the bear. "Why?" asked the bull. "Because, I want
to prove that I am a stronger and better fighter than you are." The bull
laughed. "I thought you really wanted something. You can't possibly win against
me. I have sharp horns that can cause terrible injuries." "And my claws are
sharp and quick," the bear shot back. "I have defeated many an enemy -- anyone
who would harm my cubs or take away my mate. I am the king of the forest!" "Then
go back to the forest," the bull bluntly advised. "This is the meadow." The bear
blinked in surprise. "I beg your pardon..." "I mean, what's the point of me
fighting with you?" the bull asked. "What would that prove? We are not enemies.
I have not harmed your cubs or taken your mate." "It would prove that I am the
strongest." "Okay," said the bull, smiling. "I'll buy that. You are strongest.
Now leave and let me graze in peace." "Just one cotton-pickin' minute. What do
you mean by that?" The bear raised a club-like paw. "I will tear you to shreds.
Defend yourself." "What you do is up to you," the bull answered calmly. "But if
you do, what will all your friends -- the ones who are watching us right now --
think about you?" "They will think that I am the strongest," yelled the
frustrated bear. "I don't think so. I do not choose to fight you just because
you choose to fight with me. I would only fight to defend one of the cows in my
care. If you attack one of them, then I'd be obliged to give you a good
lashing." "I can't attack them," protested the bear. "They can't fight back.
There would be no victory to it."
"Exactly," answered the bull. "But what if you did? And what if I should try to
defend them? What if something should happen to me? Who would protect them then?
You? Would you trust me to protect your cubs if something happened to you? What
would happen to your family if you lose the fight?" "I never thought of that,"
said the bear. "Go back into the woods, Bear," said the bull as he turned to
walk away. "Live in peace. And I will stay in the meadow and do the same." The
bear turned toward the woods. He had come spoiling for a fight -- to prove which
one was the strongest. But he had learned an important lesson from a very wise
bull. In peace, there are no losers. |