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Grandchildren are the crowning glory of the
aged; parents are the pride of their children. (Proverbs 17:6 NLT). As you may be able to guess
from the reading and my recent absence, Mary and I are the proud grandparents of
two wonderful children! Faith and Logan were born about fifteen minutes apart on
Thanksgiving Day! What a great reminder of the blessings we have been given. I received the call from my
son and was told to get on the plane for North Carolina early in the evening on
Thanksgiving. By the time I could actually book a flight and get there, they had
been born and were in the Neonatal ICU. When I arrived I went immediately to the
hospital to see Brandy, Faith, and Logan. The thoughts I had were overwhelming.
To think that just a few weeks before we were not sure that they would be able
to survive outside the womb was sobering. The miracle God had performed was even
more magnified because of the many difficulties overcome in their short lives so
far. As the hours passed into
days, I had even more time to ponder their birth. Of course, every birth is a
miracle of God. He is the only One capable of giving life. How tragic that we
find ourselves confused about that truth! They were just shy of 34 weeks, just a
few weeks beyond their second trimester. In the legal world of our culture,
their lives could have been forfeited just six weeks earlier! I am proud that
Kyle and Brandy never once wavered in their desire to give them every chance at
life outside of the womb. Even in the face of many potentially debilitating
birth defects, they continued to pray and work toward the birth of their
children. Some might say that it is
easy to say these things in the face of two healthy babies having been born. We
will never know the answer to that charge. They are healthy and it is easier to
be thankful for that. However, my hope and prayer is that regardless of the
outcome, it wouldn’t change how we feel about life. Even before their
conception, God knew them and formed them (cf. Jeremiah 1:4-6). Now, He has a
plan for their lives (cf. Psalm 139:12-16). It is so exciting to be a witness to
this great miracle! It is so wonderful to be a part of that plan. That’s the
crowning glory Solomon spoke of in his wisdom. Take a moment today and
reflect on the lives of your children. Even when you have been disappointed and
hurt, thank God for life. Renew your commitment to their lives. Express your
love to your children and praise God for His wonderful miracle. |
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