Morning Devotional
March 18, 2003
Family
by Don Emmitte

Later on God tested Abraham's faith and obedience. "Abraham!" God called. "Yes," he replied. "Here I am." "Take your son, your only son--yes, Isaac, whom you love so much--and go to the land of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains, which I will point out to you." The next morning Abraham got up early. He saddled his donkey and took two of his servants with him, along with his son Isaac. Then he chopped wood to build a fire for a burnt offering and set out for the place where God had told him to go. On the third day of the journey, Abraham saw the place in the distance. "Stay here with the donkey," Abraham told the young men. "The boy and I will travel a little farther. We will worship there, and then we will come right back." Abraham placed the wood for the burnt offering on Isaac's shoulders, while he himself carried the knife and the fire. As the two of them went on together, 7Isaac said, "Father?" "Yes, my son," Abraham replied. "We have the wood and the fire," said the boy, "but where is the lamb for the sacrifice?" "God will provide a lamb, my son," Abraham answered. And they both went on together. When they arrived at the place where God had told Abraham to go, he built an altar and placed the wood on it. Then he tied Isaac up and laid him on the altar over the wood. And Abraham took the knife and lifted it up to kill his son as a sacrifice to the LORD. At that moment the angel of the LORD shouted to him from heaven, "Abraham! Abraham!" “Yes," he answered. "I'm listening." "Lay down the knife," the angel said. "Do not hurt the boy in any way, for now I know that you truly fear God. You have not withheld even your beloved son from me." Then Abraham looked up and saw a ram caught by its horns in a bush. So he took the ram and sacrificed it as a burnt offering on the altar in place of his son. Abraham named the place "The LORD Will Provide." (Genesis 22:1-14 NLV). 

One of the readings for this week of Lent is this passage in Genesis. Perhaps for several reasons I am drawn to thoughts of the family.  Kyle and Brandy are home for a few days and I am enjoying being with them while reminiscing. All of these thoughts center on the concept of family.  

Perhaps it is best to start at the beginning. What is family? Is it middle class, of European descent, living in Vermont in the 1950's, a mom, a dad, one son, one daughter, a dog, and a cat? Or is it a Hebrew woman who surrenders her son to the Nile that he might live as an adopted heir in Pharaoh's court. Adoption is an image of family that popular culture rarely invokes. Almost everyone is close to, or directly involved in an adoptive family, families that often cross class, ethnicity, geography, and time. There are now, and have always been, families where grandparents are parenting a grandchild; where an aunt in a far away state raises a nephew; where children of color are welcomed into predominately white families (and vice-versa); or where the boundaries of class and income are erased for yet another Broadway Annie or Oliver. It is a fact that families are complicated, sometimes painful alignments born out of suffering and sadness that give hope and purpose to both parent and child. Family is about sacrifice.  

The very heart of family is centered in sacrifice. It makes demands upon our individualistic freedoms. Husbands give themselves to their wives and wives give themselves to their husbands so that the two, wishing to create a mutual relationship sacrifice some liberties, in order that they might become one, a "one" of greater value. That’s the message of Abraham’s experience in our reading this morning. The sacrifice asked of Abraham was extreme, but for the Hebrews nothing less than the identity of the family of God was at stake. Although much is made of Abraham's faith, what about his personal surrender of that which for him was his most personal treasure? It is hard today to fully understand that Abraham was surrendering not only his child, but also his legacy, his own identity. However, family in the eyes of God demands just that! What kind of sacrifice are you willing to make for your family? Putting God first means putting others first also.  This is especially true in the family.  The more you give, the more you may receive.